Frank conversations with porn stars reveals some great truths. Many of these tips may not be what you expect, but all of them are useful. Most people believe that no one knows sex better than porn stars. Much of what is on the big screen is choreographed and rehearsed. That is true; however a handful of them were willing to divulge some of their own trade secrets. The information below was gathered from the sources and compiled into the most commonly given advice by porn stars.
The most common sex tip given by the majority of porn stars is you need to take the time to get to know your partner. Not all women are turned on by the same elements and those that are may not be at all times. Yes. It is already getting tricky and you have only just begun.
You should speak openly with your partner. Something that gets her juices flowing may not seem as if it is related to sex at all. For example, renting a movie to snuggle up and watch after your girl has been asking for a night of dinner and dancing is a sure way to end up in the dog house with no treat. Pay attention, if you are uncomfortable asking. She will let you know by her body language.
Ask for Instruction
There is absolutely no reason to flounder around the first time, or anytime, you intend to knock her socks off. Once the situation seems to be advancing full steam ahead ask your mate what she would like for you to do. You might also try a move or technique and ask whether she likes it or not. Chances are you will not need to ask this last question. It should be pretty evident, if she is turned on.
Be careful with the exponential stage. You really should not start out with something too freaky. You might traumatize her for life and scare her off. You might try alternating between gently nibbling her neck and ravaging it. She will respond in kind and that is a guarantee. Use the same amount of enthusiasm on your way down as well as while you are dining. In the event that she wants you to take bigger bites, her hands will demand it.
Take Control
This is a tip that you must implement carefully. The first thing you should find out is if she prefers domination or submission. Your little vixen might be a dominatrix. Keep in mind that, even if she is, it does not mean she does not like to be dominated once in a while. The key here as with all sex tips or techniques, is to move slowly. Allow her time to demonstrate that she is enjoying herself before you become bolder.
Spanking should really be addressed here. The largest majority of women do enjoy a certain amount of love slaps. The difference is usually in the intensity department. Some of them only want love taps while others prefer the red cheek treatment. Your lady will be very forthcoming here as well, if not through words, through actions.
To Strip or Not to Strip
There are cases where you may be tempted to rip all of her clothes off and head right for the inside track. It is a better idea to leave at least a few clothing items on. There are several reasons for this. One is that it shows a sense of urgency. Knowing you want her now and have no time for formalities might just push her right over the edge. Certain articles could provide an advantage. For example, bending her over while she has on spiked heels will elevate you both to paradise.
Seductive Speech
There are varying opinions when it comes to dirty talk in the bedroom. Some like it hot. Some like it not. Again, candidness is key for any of these tips to be successfully implemented. Perhaps you could simply ask your woman to talk dirty to you. To get her started perhaps she could explicitly demand everything she wants from you. You may find that when you are verbally expressive about your curling toes, she blows her top. Try whispering in her ear and describe how close you are to blowing yours. If she responds well, be a bit more descriptive with the next line.
Did you know?
- Gossip going round about the juicy Jessica Drake says she likes stepping up to the plate in her heels because it helps him drive her home.
- Rumor has it that the tantalizing Tasha Reign loves a bit of roguish hair pulling.
- Sultry Sophia Fiore wants her man to push her up a wall and deliver his message, or so the story goes.
- To get the goodies from kinky Kira Kener insiders say you must nibble around the edges first.
- The latest on the lusty Lisa Ann is turned off by routine, but if you catch her off guard, you reward will be her treasure box.
Just Ask
The bottom line is no one can tell you what your baby doll wants except her. There are all sorts of things you might give a shot. The best way to find out what makes her boat float is to yep, you guessed it, ask her. Most women are happy to tell you straight up.
If you are not quite comfortable using the words yet, you can still use your mouth. Try tiny moves and, when she is receptive, take her a bit further. Another way to find out is watch a specific movie with her. You might not want to suggest porn, if the relationship is new, unless she has already made you aware that she likes those types of flicks. Choose something that has a few sensual scenes and see how she reacts to them or ask her about them. That may be safer, but she may appreciate it more, if you just ask.
