Many couples believe date nights are what keep the spark alive in their relationships. For special occasions like anniversaries, why not take things up a notch and go beyond the usual candle-lit dinner?
Here’s how you could prepare for a hot and steamy date.
Be Physically Ready
If you’re planning to get some action, make sure you’re ready for it. You’d want to give your lady a great time and last for as long as she could.
A few minutes of cardio daily on the days leading up to your date could help get your endurance up and your blood flowing better.
Get into it Mentally
A confident man is a sexy man.
There’s more to dating than just looking great. It would be best if you were confident with yourself too. Women could easily see through someone who’s faking it. So, get your head in the game. It would help if you practiced confidence wherever you can — in the bathroom, in front of a mirror, with colleagues, and amongst friends.
When it comes to confidence in the bedroom, it helps to visualize your sexual fantasy and imagine your partner in it. Once you could put your partner in your fantasy, you could easily think or imagine how you’re going to act in certain situations. When date night finally arrives, you already know how to respond or what to do to confidently transition from dinner to late-night special.
Prepare Your Place
Let’s face it, we’re all comfortable in our own homes and bedrooms. For this exceptional date night, don’t ask, “your place or my place?” Take control and bring your lady home. Of course, this goes without saying that you should prepare your place for the occasion.
Apart from cleaning and organizing, it would help to fix your home so you could easily set the mood when you and your date arrive.
Transform your living room into a romantic space. Dim the lights and have a few scented candles you could light when you get home. Having a bottle of wine and some chocolates (they’re aphrodisiacs!) wouldn’t hurt, too. You could also have a sexy playlist ready to complete the mood.
If your partner likes massages, consider having some massage oils in the living room and a spot where you could give her a quick (or long) sensual massage.
Turn your bedroom into a Red Room of Fun. If you and your partner love to play with toys, then having a few toys— preferably your partner’s favorites— strategically positioned around the bedroom is a great idea.
Sexting is a perfect way to get you and your partner all worked up in anticipation of the date.
On the day of the date, start sexting in the morning and continue doing so for the entire day. Use your imagination and creativity. If you’re feeling up to it, you could even send a sexy photo or video to supplement your messages.
Never tried sexting before? Consider recalling a memorable sexual encounter with your partner. You could start as innocently as, “Do you remember that time when we…” Then describe the memory as vividly as you can. You don’t need to use explicit language if you’re uncomfortable with it. The important thing is to get your partner to imagine precisely what you’re describing.
Throw in Some Aphrodisiacs for Dinner
Aphrodisiacs during dinner help keep the level of sexual anticipation you’ve worked so hard to maintain during the day by sexting.
Raw oysters are a popular aphrodisiac, but if you’re not keen on eating oysters, you could try strawberries, truffles, honey, and watermelon. Additionally, any dish that creates warmth or adds moisture could help arouse sexual desire — think chilies.
A tiny word of caution: Take it easy on the garlic and other spices as it may take a while to get rid of the smell.
On your next date, surprise your partner like you have never done before. Make it a memorable night (or day) by turning it into a passionate, toe-curling, orgasmic sexy time!