Lots of people think men have higher sex drives than women. Lots of people are wrong.
Do men have higher sex drives than women? According to plenty of studies, men do have higher sex drives and it doesn’t take much to get them in the mood. Women, on the other hand, are a little trickier. According to Edward Laumann, PhD in sociology, “Sexual desire in women is extremely sensitive to environment and context.” Laumann, in my opinion, is boring and outdated.
Journalist Daniel Bergner really got the truth down in his book What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire. Bergner looked at a ton of sex studies and concluded that women want sex just as much as men do, and contrary to popular belief, “emotional intimacy and safety” aren’t important. Women are just as horny as men, and often a hell of a lot hornier.
So that thing about men having higher sex drives than women…. It’s total bull shit.
When I first started sleeping around and also seriously dating, I figured I’d be the frigid one having to lube up and get in the mood on command – even when I didn’t want it. The reality was much different. And, as most of my fellow female friends have found, it’s not uncommon to get with a man who has a lower sex drive than you.
Here are a few tips to handle a sex-craved woman:
Buck up and take advantage of it.
If you’re the one with the lower libido, step it up and get with her. Sex has so many benefits to your health. It lowers your blood pressure, helps treat depression, helps combat nasty insomnia, and makes you feel even closer to your partner. This is thanks to the happy and closeness chemical oxytocin.
Encourage her to initiate sex more often.
One of the biggest issues I’ve had as a woman is feeling like I can’t be the one to initiate sex. Part of this is because we live in a society where men are looked at as the more dominant and sexual partners. But it’s sexy when she wants you, so you should encourage her to express that.
If she’s feeling it but you’re not, maybe you need to spice things up a bit. Hit up the nearest sex shop together and go wild.
Admit when you just can’t do it.
Sometimes you’re exhausted or you really just can’t get into the mood. You don’t want to hurt her feelings by forcing yourself to do it if you know you won’t be able to get it up. Don’t beat around the bush: just tell her you’re too tired or stressed out and promise to bang her way hard next time.
And, MOST Importantly: Boost your libido.
Low-T or low testosterone is a real thing, and it could be the reason you’re not feeling up to as much sex as she wants. It’s not all in your head, and it’s not your fault. And you can fix it. Check out Libido Booster Extreme. LBE isn’t just any “male enhancement” product. It’s backed by science. The LB Extraction Method helps you achieve a massive boost in testosterone production and libido. This is thanks to natural T-boosters like the rare Indonesian Tongkat Ali and the Eastern Chinese Epimedium (Horny Goat Weed).
A girl who wants to bang you 24/7 shouldn’t be a problem. It should be the best thing that ever happened to you.