If you want to discover the greatest hidden gem in male sexual pleasure, all you have to do is ask your girlfriend to stick her finger up your butt. We’re talking about prostate milking. It’s a bit of a taboo for straight guys, but listen: butt stuff isn’t just for gay guys. If it makes you feel a little awkward, grossed out, or even a little homo to consider trying it out, get over yourself. It’s fucking worth it.
If you haven’t had your prostate massaged, you’re missing out. It’s as simple as that. If you’ve tried it before and you’re on the verge of closing this tab, don’t. We’ve got some great reasons why you should give it a chance or try it again. Here’s why.
The prostate is essentially the male G-spot, and some say a prostate orgasm is even better than the typical orgasm. Your prostate gland is shaped like a walnut and positioned close to the rectal wall. If you stick your finger up your butt about two to three inches deep and press towards your navel, you can actually feel it.
A prostate massage doesn’t just feel good, though. There’s more and more evidence that stimulating your prostate is good for you. Some even say it could help reduce your risk of developing prostate cancer. This is because a prostate orgasm helps flush out toxins, fluids, and even blockages that aren’t cleared by regular ejaculation on its own. It gets more awesome: prostate milking increases blood flow and helps combat erectile dysfunction. In other words, it gives you a much harder boner.
Don’t let masculinity or embarrassment get in the way of an awesome orgasm. Check out these tips for how to have your first prostate orgasm:
Try it by yourself first.
This could save you a lot of time and awkwardness.
Wash your hands and trim your fingernails (or have her do this).
You can’t do it without lube, unless you want to give yourself hemorrhoids.
If you’re wound up tight, you’re not going to be able to enjoy it.
Don’t go in until you’re super turned on.
You can’t just dive into a prostate massage. You’ve gotta get some foreplay in. If you immediately start with the milking, you’re not going to have an orgasm. The more aroused you are, the more swollen and ready to go your prostate is.
Use a vibrator or other sex toy.
Some guys or their girlfriends can’t even reach or find the prostate because it’s just too deep. Opting for a vibrator makes everyone’s life easier – it’s cleaner, more consistent, and it allows you and your partner to use your hands for other things.
Combine it with oral sex.
This is going to allow you to relax more, and it’s also going to double your pleasure.
Don’t go too hard.
Prostate milking is sort of like smoking weed – it might not totally work the first couple of times, but when you have an orgasm or get stoned, you’re going to want to do it over and over again. If you’re not feeling it yet, don’t push too hard or fast – you could damage the prostate gland which has a thin lining. If you’re not willing to try out prostate milking yet, that’s just too bad. You could be missing out on the best orgasm of your life.