Mother nature can be cruel sometimes. She gives more to others and less to some. Take your member for example. Is it the size you want or something you dread to have?
While some women say how you treat them matters more than your sausage, the reality is this, size does matter in the bedroom. Harsh as it may seem, but it does.
Women tend to talk behind your back when they feel your cock fails to give them the pleasure-enhancing penetration they expect. Girl talks can center on this hot topic. And well, you might be one of the unforgettable guys they love to talk about, positively or negatively.
Let’s take, for example, Chelsea’s experience. She shared that she once dated a guy who was a total showboat. He bragged about what he does, where he lives and what he owns. Chelsea was a bit blown away thinking this guy was a big catch. She didn’t expect she was in for a big surprise the night they got the chance to sneak in his place. As she described it, he got the most petite cumgun she had ever seen. She quickly understood the reason behind his braggadocio. It was compensation for what he lacked.
Another girl named Liza shared a similar story. There was this dude she got a huge crush on. With his big and burly body, he was a Hercules in the flesh. She was totally swept off her feet when he started kissing her. Being in bed with him was like a dream. But she was pulled back into reality real quick when the giant redwood she expected was no more than a sapling. She learned a valuable lesson that day, never draw conclusions based on a man’s physical appearance.
Size does matter. But what if you happen to be one of those men? What if you consider your size to be of below average?
Doctors say there’s a condition called adult micropenis that is about two inches in size. This is a medical condition that is recognized right after birth. But they assured that men with this condition should not fret because it’s treatable with surgery or hormones.
You might be lucky if your penis size is more than two inches, but you might not be lucky enough to have an average erect size between 5.88 to 6.2 inches.
If this is you, don’t worry. We got you covered. Instead of spending more time worrying, do these things instead. These can surely help you gain that confidence and make your partner orgasm more than she thought she could have.
Another thing is, if you want to conceive, a smaller penis couldn’t promise you that. A larger member enables you to deliver the sperm farther into the woman’s birth canal, which increases the chances of impregnation.
1. Master the right position
In sex, the skill also plays a crucial role. Even if you have a large penis, if you don’t know how to use it, you wouldn’t be able to utilize it fully. Some positions are favorable to guys with smaller penises. Woman on top is one of them. When’s she’s on top, she’s able to move your cock wherever she likes. Being on top makes her in control.
Just make sure she’s not too rough, otherwise, you might end up with a penile injury. Modified missionary and reverse cowgirl are other good alternatives.
2. Take care of the relationship
When it comes to relationships, sex is only one part of the equation. Focus on other things that can make the relationship fun and your partner happy. The relationship is not limited only in the bedroom. Flirt with her often and make her feel special.
Sex does count but if you believe your penis is not too small to be an issue in your sex life, then you’d be fine. Or, if you feel it’s a bit smaller, compensate for the lack in size by being romantic and considerate to her needs. As long as you cultivate the fun and excitement in your relationship, she will not leave you.
3. Encourage your partner to do Kegels
So, you’re in it. You and your partner know that yours is not a big pole. For some other reasons, she sticks with you and it’s a beautiful thing. But don’t let it stay that way. You can still enjoy your kinky time by doing some tricks.
Encourage her to do kegel exercises. This helps her to learn to contract her muscles more and tighten her vaginal walls, leading to a snugger fit. When she’s learned to contract harder and stronger, your sex would feel good to both of you.
4. Give her more clitoral stimulation
The clitoris consists of several nerve endings that can enhance pleasure when stimulated. The right moves can be enough to bring her to the peak of her sexual experience. Use your tongue or fingers as the best alternative to your cock and she’ll surely wouldn’t ask for more. To add more fun and excitement, you can also use your favorite toy.
5. Take supplements
Some women prefer large girth than length. They want a size that truly fits. Your maximum girth can be best achieved when you eat foods that sex experts call aphrodisiacs. These are the foods that enhance your libido and increases sexual pleasure and performance.
Though chocolates, nuts, and red peppers are popular foods in this area, the most effective are the ones found in supplements like ginseng, maca, fenugreek, long jack, and others. You can pick these foods from the grocery or the market, but if you want more with less effort, go for supplements.
6. Seek professional help
When you’ve done all of the above tips and still feel inadequate of yourself, your condition might need medical intervention. Seek the right doctor and be open to different options such as enlargements, pumps, surgeries, and others. But don’t do this unless you’ve tried the above suggestions.
Sex is a big part of life. Making the best of it with what you have should be your priority. Try the tips above and enjoy your sex life while you still can.